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Sunday, October 31, 2010

Love Crimes!

Crime#1
USER
(taking granted for your partner especially Money and other material things)
Solution:
you should know when is your limitation for taking and also when giving know when is the right time.
Crime#2
BODYGUARD
(Being selfish for mingling around)
Solution:
Know your jealous part not all the time you can be jealous to him/her and also don't be selfish to his/her friends
Crime#3
SPY
(Spying on the most private places like phones and other social networking sites)
Solution:
Trusting is very essential in a relationship if you give him/her and also give him/her some privacy..

Crime#4
FLIRT
(Flirting is different from being friendly)
Solution:
Don't or never flirt it's okay to be friendly but you should know when or where to stop..

Bottomline:
-Know your Limitation
-Trust yourself and your partner
-Past is Past

Crush


                      Crush- a simple admiration to a person it maybe same sex or another sex.
It's part of our life when we admire something because of a certain qualities that we don't have.
In psychology, we can have multiple crush because we are not confident in our self, when we seldom have crush therefore we're already accepted what qualities we have.
We can easily admire a person if he/she is good-looking' sexy and whatever good qualities.
To sum it all, Crush is all about admiring a physical beauty and a good qualities that we really do want.

Infatuation

- the mistaken love
- many people who feel this called this love but actually they're wrong coz infatuation is somehow different from Love here are some:
*Infatuation is blind, you refuse to see what you don't want and you only see what you want to see.
*It can't wait.
*It can easily fade. After a month or a year it fade just like nothing happen.
*Like crush you can fell infatuated in more than one person
*It can also be break by absence


Infatuation and Love is very confusing coz we really dunno what kind of feeling we have towards our partner.

Infatuation is greater than Crush but Lesser than Love.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

What is Love?


LOVE


I remember the day when I first answered that question. At first I do say that Love is Blind or Love is God. Later in our life we do find what it really means to us sometimes it's painful but sometimes it's wonderful.
Love has many meaning coz it differ from one person to another.
Maybe for other Love is being happy, Love is like a rosary that's full of Mystery or sometimes Love is finding contentment with someone, Love is finding an imperfect person who is perfect for you. Love is truly a broad, hard to explain but all I can say is Love is you, It's very important to ask yourself before saying anything about LOVE.

Here are some qualities of  perfect Love:
1) Acceptance- just like friends you must accept what are the qualities of your partner.
2) Trust- a simple quality, if you do have trust to your partner therefore you refrain from jealousy.
3) Friendship- later in our life we only need a partner that we need to company off  but it doesn't really necessary that you don't have love to your partner.
4) Faith- always set your things to God coz there's no relationship that last without God.
and the last one is Jealousy- why it is because love without jealousy is BORING...
but always remember that refrain from being jealous to your partner.

"LOVE takes 2 million brains to know what it really means but it only takes 2 Hearts to feel it"...