Love Bug

Love Bug

Called you for the first time yesterdayI finally found the missing part of meI felt so close but you were far awayLeft me without anything to say
Now I'm speechless over the edge, I'm just breathlessI never thought that I'd catch this lovebug againHopeless, head over heels in the momentI never thought that I'd get hit by this lovebug again
I can't get your smile out of my mind(I can't get you outta my mind)I think about your eyes all the timeYou're beautiful but you don't even try(You don't even, don't even try)Modesty is just so hard to find

Now I'm speechless over the edge, I'm just breathlessI never thought that I'd catch this lovebug againHopeless, head over heels in the momentI never thought that I'd get hit by this lovebug again
I kissed her for the first time yesterdayEverything I wished that it would beSuddenly I forgot how to speakHopeless, breathless, baby can't you see?Now I'm
Now I'm speechless over the edge, I'm just breathlessI never thought that I'd catch this lovebug againNow I'm hopeless, head over heels in the momentI never thought that I'd get hit by this lovebug againOh! Lovebug again----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Lovebug....
There's an old idiom that whenever you were bitten by love bug you will fall in love easily.It's only old and some kinda rumor but actually let's say that love bug is real... or should I say Love bug is actually our partner or special someone why? it is because whenever we see them we were like falling in love with them.. Whenever we talk to them we are longing for them.
So let's cut it short Love bug is actually real in some way.. There are some instance when we saw someone we say "He/She's the One."
But, we can't truly say that is all true afterall. The Love bug in our self is the main reason why we keep minding that special someone.... It is the reason why we fall in love with the same person again and again. It is also the reason why we are happy with him/ her it's because our own love bug bite us again and again. It is the reason that's why we fall in love with the most unexpected time and reason. 
Love Bug......

The real Love Bug......

The lovebug, Plecia nearctica, is a member of the family of march flies. It is also known as the honeymoon fly, kissingbug, or double-headed bug. The adult is a small, flying insect common to parts of Central America and the southeastern United States, especially along the Gulf Coast. During and after mating, adult pairs remain coupled, even in flight, for up to several days.

The lovebug was first described in 1940 by D. E. Hardy from Galveston, Texas. At that time, he reported the incidence of lovebugs to be widespread, but most common in Texas and Louisiana. However, by the end of the 20th century the species had spread heavily to all areas bordering the Gulf of Mexico, as well as Georgia, and South Carolina. L. A. Hetrick, writing in 1970, found it very widespread in central and northern Florida and described its flights as reaching altitudes of 300 to 450 metres (980 to 1,480 ft) and extending several kilometers over the Gulf. In 2006, it was reported as far north as Wilmington, North Carolina.

Immature lovebugs larvae feed on partially decayed vegetation in the landscape and, in this respect, are beneficial. Adults feed only on nectar during this brief life stage.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Urban legend holds that lovebugs are synthetic—the result of a University of Florida genetics experiment gone wrong.Much speculation about the lovebug still thrives. This is partly because the larval form of this insect is seldom seen, as it lives and feeds in the thatch of grasses for most of the year. While various fungi are suspected of being natural controls for this species, biological control of these non-pest flies is not a priority for funding.Research by L.L. Buschman showed that migration explained the introduction of the lovebug into Florida and other southeastern states, contrary to the urban myth that the University of Florida created them by manipulating DNA to control mosquito populations.

Scientific Analysis of Love

We all know that Hypothalamus is the responsible why people fall in love.



Hypothalamus holds many functions such as helping pituitary gland secretes many kinds of stimulating hormone and even controlling our hunger and thirst management but one primary hormone that the anterior pituitary gland that helps our emotion called Love is Oxytocin.

Oxytocin helps increasing TRUST and reducing Fear.
It also helps in sexual arousal and affect Generosity,
Whenever there's a sexual intercourse females  secretes many oxytocin and also male does with enough oxytocin in the body partners will last forever but too much or lack results in break up.

Love isn't just also about hormone. There's a wheel called Wheel of Emotions.

When Acceptance and Contentment interfere one another a great feeling will came around us.
Hearts will beat faster.
Your feelings will be anxious.
You became more and more feel awkward.

The reason behind it because Hypothalamus told your body to do that but still it is not enough,
Anyway Love is still unexplainable...

Moving - On

Moving On - is the hardest part of Breaking Up.

This is the time when some of the memories you miss more likely the happy memories the time that you shared together will come back in short your reminiscing.

The more happy memories you spend together the more hard the break up is because no matter how painful your break-up is you still remember the happy memories you spend together.

Here are some tips or method to move-on easily:

1) Mirror Method - why I call it Mirror Method because you need to use the Medium call Mirror.

- This method boost your self-confidence or self-esteem.

-In this method yo just need to talk to yourself ad tell yourself. ""He/She is gone, There are many person whose is better than him/her"

- One of the easiest Method I know :)

-But its take a longer time.

2) Amnesia Method - also known as C.L.A.Y GO method.

-Clean As You Go Method why? because it's amnesia method help yourself to forget him/her. If your friends try to make a distance on that person if he/she gave you some things then let go of it or bring it back to him. All the things that he/she gave to you let go it. If you have pictures dispose it.

- This is the most applicable method now, It's one of the easiest way to move on but a painful also.

- You can do it!

3) Friendly Method - The Hardest Method to do..

- This one you try to make friends to him/her. Try to be friends with him/her then prove to him/her that you move on. It's hard but if you use this method then do it. If you're already friends chat with each other just like a normal friends. It doesn't really matter how long you need to do this but If you do it just a month the Congratulations just like what I've said its the hardest.

-Main Goal of this one is closure of relationship.

4) Sublimation Method - It's one of the most advisable method.

You just need what kid of thing you sublimate for example you study hard, you became more friendly, you became a party lover. Don't change your attitude but exaggerated the thing you like most It's one way of moving on.

-I guess heres the method that may help you... :)
- Try it no regrets shall happen.

Forbidden Love

Forbidden Love

Forbidden comes from the word Forbid.

Or the limitation of the thing.

When it comes to Love many Factors affect the relationship that makes it Forbidden.
Some factors are:

1) Status in Society- Many people thought that when a poor woman married to a rich man they said that Woman only wants the Money. Maybe in some it's true but it some its not. Your Status in Society sometimes tells you who or what kind of Person fits you but that's not true. You can't forbid a rich man married a poor woman or vice versa if the intention of that poor person is to Love Forever that man or woman then why don't you give chance to that person to have a happy life.  After all, it's a good intention.

2) Religion Beliefs- A Muslim can never married a Christian. Why, because they have different opinion about God or Allah. they have different prophet. Then, that makes them Forbidden. in order for them to have a happy life , one needs to change its religion after all Love conquer all odds.

3) Environment - In this category it has many sub-factors like

3.1)Peer Pressure - Friend really affect when choosing who or what kind of person because sometimes they are the one who acts as a bridge to your suitor. So be careful who your friend are.

3.2)Parents - As they say Parent's know best. Sometimes our parents is right when choosing our loved ones but not most of the times what if that person is a plastic. He is ice only to your Parents but not from you. Then your Parents agree that you should marry him despite the fact that he was a mean guy.

3.3)Relatives - Like Parents, they usually look to see whose your suitor. One of the most curious person in the world is your brother or sisters. they usually ask who and why you are in love at that person. I don't really know why they need to do that


4)Age Gap - 10 years and up put many controversy in one's relationship because they said that you're only aim is to have his or her money or any material thing. but as the old saying said "Age Doesn't Matter" and remember that if he/she has a good intention then let him/her be happy..

5)Traditions or Beliefs - They said that a Chinese Guy can only married a Chinese Girl. Why, because of their tradition so once that Chinese Guy fall in love with a Filipino girl they said it was Forbidden. So beliefs and Tradition are one of the greatest factor why we have  now Forbidden Love.

6)Racial Discrimination -A Black American can never married a White American, Why because of their colors. Black said to be a lower class of man but in fact they also human so don't judge them. And in many countries colors is one of the greatest classification of beauty. If your white your beautiful, If your Black then your Ugly. It was a sad thing after all.

Mr and Mrs. Doodle

Mr. Mark Doodle loves Ms. Mary Mae Dolly

So he wanted to aim something That is to Marry Him 

So lets wait what will happen next.

The First Step is Courtship...

 

Mr. Mark Doodle's Courtship works well

Oh, See they're dreaming with each other

Oh! No a Pesky Brat Came Mary Mae's sister

She's a Very Good Spy

See that she's a spy

Oh My God, Mr Ken Dollars his enemy came can he wins Mary Mae's Heart

 Their Confrontation. They fight to know whose better.

Then they end up Battling and made a bad consequence. Ms. Dolly bumped her head.

Now she's on the hospital. Her mom and Dad can't imagine why she felt that bump.

The two boys were very sad about it because that thing is their fault.

Ms. Dolly was still on the hospital, so Mr. Dollars ask her sister to get her diary.

After several days. Ms. Dolly waked up. Shes now back with us but she has an amnesia

So her parent gave their Family picture to gain some memories

Mr. Dollars know that condition so she burned some entries that would help Ms. Dolly recover the memories of Mr. Doodle to him.

And he give it back to her little sister. to help in recovering.

Thanks for the Diary and some memories were back

But some entries are still missing

<To be Continued>

Aphrodisiacs

To all the readers of my blog. I would like to open a topic about Aphrodisiacs.

Last time I post about Eros and Aphrodite, and as long as I remember I open that Aphrodite was the root word for Aphrodisiac.

So what is Aphrodisiac, Aphrodisiac are "foods" or things that give our body an energy and great arousal to our body when it comes to sex.

This food helps you're body go "wild " or may help increase your Sexual desire.

Here are some examples:

Raw Oysters

Raw Oysters are the best and well known Aphrodisiac. It contains Zinc that helps boost the testosterone level of male.

Also it has 2 amino acids namely: D-aspartic and N-methyl-D-aspartate when this two amino acid comes to your vein your sex hormones will increase.

Your sex drive will increase too.

Chili Peppers

Chili Peppers has a component called capsaicin which is a great stimulator in our nerve endings and cause heart to spike. Which may lead the body to release endorphins. Endorphins were natural high  that might change into sexual desire.

Chocolate

Chocolate was a mild aphrodisiac it can stimulate sexual desire but it's only mild. You need to eat a 1/4 pounds of your weight to boosts your sexual desire. So don't be afraid when eating Chocolates..

Avocado

Avocado contain high levels of folic acid, helping to metabolize proteins. They also contain vitamin B6, helpful in increasing male hormone production. In addition potassium is found in avocado which aids in regulating the female thyroid gland, thus helping both male & female by way of these two elements.

Asparagus

It is became a famous Aphrodisiac because of the shape it looks like but it is not because of the shape. Asparagus were good in giving Vitamin E. Vitamin E stimulates sex hormones.

Gingko

Gingko is a famous aphrodisiac in some Asian Countries. The main uses of Gingko is to help stimulate your memory, but it has effect on genitals too it widens the blood vessels in the genitals.

Arugula or Rocket

It was used as a aphrodisiac in ancient times (It's birth was the first century of A.D) . It usually founds in salads and pasta.

Damiana

Damiana, or wild yam, has a traditional use as an aphrodisiac and chemical analysis shows that it contains chemicals that can increase sensitivity in the genitals. Damiana also has a reputation for inducing erotic dreams, when drunk at bedtime, although it has not been proven in clinical trials but other said it works.

Spanish Fly

In United States, it is illegal because of the side effect of this said product. This product's main ingredient were kinda a beetle who were dried and became a powder. The effects of the Spanish Fly will give irritation to your urinary tract that send blood to your genitals. It also said to be the modern love potions.

Yohimbine

It can increase your erection by sending blood to your penis. It's drug comes from the extracted Yohimbine Bark. One of the dangerous aphrodisiac. It is because it gives some bad effects that may cause you heart attack. Common side effect are increased of heart attack, raised of blood pressure,anxiety and nausea. This drug should be taken with Prescription to avoid bad effects.

Basil or Sweet Basil

This Aphrodisiac stimulates sex drive and boost fertility. It also controls your body and mind in sex control.

Carrot

Carrot is a high beta-carotene plant that helps Vitamin A in our eyes. In some study, Beta Carotene also gives some sex drive in men because of the vitamins it has. Also the Phallus shape of the Carrot believe to stimulate sex drive it is used in Middle eastern Loyalty.

Caffeine

Caffeine is a high antioxidants food. it is also causes depressant when drinking too much but a minimal amount of this can cause you a lot of Sexual Drive.

Cilantro Seed or Coriander

This aphrodisiac was used in Ancient times there also some books that Cilantro seeds were used as Aphrodisiac. This also said to be an appetizer or an appetite stimulant

Figs

Eating a Fig can cause a woman to increase sexual drive. This food emulate the female sex organ. So if a man eat it in a front of a woman something would happen.

Garlic

This Condiments used also in some medicinal purposes can heat someone sex drive. The heat coming from the Garlic can stir someones emotion especially when it comes to Sexual Drive.
So be ready and spice your Heat Now.. Kidding...

Honey

Bees. A healthy Product come from them can sweeten your desire use this. Honey said to cure sterility and impotence. Maybe because of the content comes from the Honey that helps to boost your Hormones. In Medieval time, many married people drink Mead, a fermented honey. For them it can increase sexual desire and can help  sweeten their marriage.

Liquorice(licorice)

A medicinal  drink from China. It's essence comes from the extracted Glycyrrhiza glabra (licorice) plant. It is 50 times sweeter than sugar. Chewing it can enhance Love and Lust. It is also a good stimulator in Women.

Mustard

The Yellow Ketchup. Mustard are famous in Burger and its distinct sour taste. Mustard believed tat can stimulate sexual gland and can stimulate sex arousal.

Nutmeg

A popular Aphrodisiac in Chinese women. They said it can create a hallucinogenic effect once you eat a certain quantity.

Pine Nuts

Zinc an element that can stimulate your arousal and can stimulate male potency. Guess what Pine Nuts were normally has a good source of Zinc because of tat Pine Nuts can give you extra boost about it. 

Pineapple

A rich in Vitamin Fruit that ca cure Impotence. So try and Drink it.

Berries (Raspberries and Strawberries)

Berries symbolizes temptation toward sex. So tis two said Berries were used in many erotic literature saying that it was an effective "Aphrodisiac". Both of them were high in Vitamin C and a Good add in Desert.

Truffles

A rare mushroom in Greek and Roman Myth, The Gods and Goddesses were said to be uses this Aphrodisiac. The musky smell can stimulate sensitivity in skin that causes stimulation in Sexual desire.

Vanilla
An extracted flower called Vanilla. The scent and flavor of vanilla is believed to increase lust. According to the Australian Orchid Society, "Old Totonac lore has it that Xanat, the young daughter of the Mexican fertility goddess, loved a Totonac youth. Unable to marry him due to her divine nature, she transformed herself into a plant that would provide pleasure and happiness." Maybe This story shows why the scent can increase arousal.

Wine
This famous Social Drink gives a kick in Aphrodisiac. A glass or two of wine can greatly enhance a romantic interlude. Wine relaxes and helps to stimulate our senses. Drinking wine can be an erotic experience. Let your eyes feast on the color of the liquid. Caress the glass, savor the taste on your lips. Do remember that excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. A moderate amount of wine has been said to "arouse" but much more than that amount with have the reverse affect.


Some Aphrodisiac were not yet proven.. Yet people believe it so maybe mind over matter is still the best Aphrodisiac.